“…You’ll always be a part of me
I’m a part of you indefinitely
Girl don’t you know you can’t escape me
Ooh darling cause you’ll always be my baby
And we’ll linger on
Time can’t erase a feeling this strong
No way you’re never gonna shake me
Ooh darling cause you’ll always be my baby…”
- song dedication ♥
what i meant by love is in the air. haha!
I love those balloons so much tt i intended to steal them =X
beautiful roses received =))
but i sensed a pinch at heart. i meant mine.
a special vday spent.
‘cos i have never celebrated vday properly w valentine.
i ought to thank him – thanks dear! xoxo.
came across an interesting entry by Beatrice Tan.
about the needs of Men & Women in r/s.
i find it very true though.
“For a Woman, the essential needs are:
1) Affection
For the guy to show affections, care and concern, feel the love and bond.
2) Conversation
A very important point. When a guy is going after a girl, he tends to listen to whatever she says, her life, her day, her everything to get to know the girl better, to find out what she likes/dislikes, what she needs and all.
Needs and wants are changing everyday, and when a guy is chasing a girl, he perfectly understands what she needs and wants, hence, things are so smooth and sweet. However, when they are together, they made lesser effort to have conversations and thats when couples drift apart, couples quarrel.
And i guess in many cases, the guy tends to not show interest in whatever the girlfriend might be saying, such as ” i went shopping with my gf today and i bought xxxx and xxxx etc” which the guy might think its nothing important, boring to hear and all, but actually, the girlfriend is conversing with you, and you never know, you might actually get to know certain needs and wants of your girlfriend through those conversations. And research actually showed that, a guy should actually have 15 hours of conversation with the girlfriend per week.
Also, when the guy stop showing interest or just giving a slight acknowledgment, the girl slowly shares all these with other people instead. And thats when the worst come, couple drifts apart, and the girl found a guy friend to share her stuff, and slowly, she shares with him cuz he would listen attentively. The girl might feel greater concern and interest from the other guy, hence, it would harm the current relationship between the couple.
3) Honesty and Openness
Females want the guy to be honest and open with her. As much as how these two words sound so simple, TRUST AND SECURITY. it is something so important in the relationship, that, even if you ever spoil it a little, it causes HARM to your relationship.
Share with your girlfriend everything she wants to know. Be open with her. Sometimes guys might just think, telling a white lie, telling partial truth or not telling the girlfriend might make it bettter, might prevent unnecessary quarrels and might prevent causing the girlfriend to feel unhappy. But 0ne day, if she finds out herself another part of the story that you told her, it will lead to your girlfriend having the thought that you are somehow keeping something from her. And this will then be very unhealthy. If you think its minor, just let her know what she asked. Learn to respect your girlfriend, talk to her in a constructive manner, not destructive manner. Dont swear, curse at her.
As for Men, their needs are:
1) Sexual Fulfilment
i was somehow shocked to hear this, and the speaker commented that he was just being frank about it. But this is the context of Marriage.
2) Recreational Companionship
An important aspect. Guys hope to have their girlfriends as a companionship when doing activities. And thats when the 15 hours of conversation of the women comes in. Hence both must find a MUTUAL interest, such as maybe, movies/travelling/sports etc and thus, spend time everyweek doing things that both of you like.
3) Attractive spouse
Guys would like their girlfriends to be attractive. Not saying, a guy would like a beauty pageant or whatever girl, but the girl should be attractive in her own way.”
above are quoted from Beatrice Tan, to read more pls visit http://beatricetan.livejournal.com/44180.html#cutid1.
I guess it’s time for me to learn how to play soccer! lol! (after i overcome tt phobia for soccer ball.)
women are indeed sentimental creatures while men, tsktsktsk. hehe.
this reminds me to catch “He’s just not so into you”. Jennifer Anniston *slurps* hahaha!
oh GOODBYE MAI!
11 yrs fren leaving for Brisbane on Fri. *pouts*
gd thing is, he promised me goodies frm Australia. oops! but in dec. hahaha!
take great care my fren! =))
